tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-87252296515738310.post1087063999782783487..comments2023-04-28T02:36:11.531-06:00Comments on Hope's Journey: The Undatable (Oooh good horror movie title)Hopehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14622866136945257976noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-87252296515738310.post-42808380536916953922012-02-02T03:13:58.764-07:002012-02-02T03:13:58.764-07:00Steve, I like your way of writing the blogs.Steve, I like your way of writing the blogs.Horror Moviehttp://www.trippletakemp.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-87252296515738310.post-20038337431912891382010-12-21T02:02:59.648-07:002010-12-21T02:02:59.648-07:00Dude, I feel the same way a lot of times. The peo...Dude, I feel the same way a lot of times. The people I date always tell me how great, talented, nice, attractive, and fun I am. But none of them have that spark. I still haven't figured out what makes me so undateable. If you figure it out, will you let me know?Jonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06109336429066544030noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-87252296515738310.post-42698708101938439332010-12-19T01:11:32.438-07:002010-12-19T01:11:32.438-07:00I always enjoy your blog posts Steve. Thanks for s...I always enjoy your blog posts Steve. Thanks for sharing. Let me know if you need anything.Recovering HoMohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13798512371035511227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-87252296515738310.post-15732604122676486912010-12-18T20:40:30.042-07:002010-12-18T20:40:30.042-07:00Two points:
First, gay guys in particular can pic...Two points:<br /><br />First, gay guys in particular can pick up on a desperation vibe like a shark can sense blood in the water. It's a lighthouse beacon on a dark night. No matter how hard you try to mask it. So if you really think you are putting out such a vibe, gotta figure out a way to stop it. Confidence-building experiences are key to that, you know how best to create those for yourself. 'Cause confidence is definitely attractive, and gay guys can sense that too.<br /><br />Two, I think you hit the nail on the head when you said that having been raised in an environment that values marriage and commitment, that's what you're looking for, but you're at an age when most guys are just looking for their next hook-up. All that means is that you're ahead of most of these other guys on the maturity scale in this respect. The only thing that will solve that is time. As all the party boys get a little older, the smarter ones amongst them will start to realize that an endless string of hook-ups is not going to produce the fulfillment they want. They will start to catch up with you. And things will get easier for you. <br /><br />But that's no reason to stop keeping an eye out for someone else who may also be ahead of the rest on the maturity scale. Patience is hard, I know. But hang in there, you are the someone that someone else is waiting for. Till you find him, spend your time trying to be the kind of person you'd be most attracted to. That usually works well.Robhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02992194211469009236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-87252296515738310.post-16278512109842481552010-12-18T17:11:40.983-07:002010-12-18T17:11:40.983-07:00From this post it hardly seems like your "und...From this post it hardly seems like your "undateable." Both of these guys admit that you're a great guy, you just didn't quite match up in the right way. Wanting a relationship and that fear of never finding someone are very common feelings for those of us raised in the Mormon faith. I'm not sure what the most healthy way to deal with those feelings is, but IMO there is not much more that you can do other than enjoy life, date who you want to, and try to enjoy the roller coaster.El Geniohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02801064758712821345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-87252296515738310.post-6518388220230916052010-12-18T17:10:09.814-07:002010-12-18T17:10:09.814-07:00Hi, Steven! I miss you! I was just thinking, I thi...Hi, Steven! I miss you! I was just thinking, I think that last paragraph is a great idea. I took a break from dating (almost 6 months), and it gave me a chance to reevaluate myself and improve on some things. When I started dating again, it worked a lot better. Love you man!Kam Azraelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00326002290858650923noreply@blogger.com